Swooning Love

The following is a transcript from a live conference call about Love and Relationships with Kay Cordell Whitaker.

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The question Kay answered was about swooning love.

Helmut: Welcome everyone to the call. Hi Kay. I'm really excited to be here.

Kay: I’m excited to be here too. This is always fun. This is the kind of thing that I just came to the planet for. I suppose you could say that this is my life.

This is what we do, teaching about Song and living Song and what that means and how these people, the Hetakas, lived and how they still live today. Quite different from our modern culture, quite, quite different .

Question: Love doesn’t always have to be the swooning kind does it? I sometimes just get this peaceful calm feeling I kind of equate with love, it feels really good.

Kay: When you’re connecting with somebody or something and you have that, that feeling that’s full of peace and calm and caring, a real genuine caring, that is definitely love, definitely love.

One of the things that the Hetakas taught me early on is that there are many kinds, flavors, definitions of love, especially when you go from one culture or subculture to the next.

And they all have their own way of displaying that and their own norms of interaction and behavior that are supposed to show this love and only one of those is the swooning kind.

And just because you are following that particular traditional ideal and you get into a situation where you feel you’re swooning, that doesn’t necessarily mean that there are real deep qualities of caring and love connection and interaction that would be what the Hetakas would call unconditional love. When you have that really deep true caring, there are no agendas, there are no barbs, there is no better-than, less-than, there’s no judgments, it’s just honest, honest true caring.

Being who and what you are and appreciating that and appreciating the who and what the other person is. That’s unconditional love. It doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with the swooning thing.

Lot of times the swooning thing is a real good indicator that there is a mask activity going on.

Our masks all have ideas of what love is or should be or what we should be wanting in love or a love partner and they like to be in the driver’s seat, they like to control us and direct us around, using their beliefs and their agendas, all mask based, all out of inequality, imbalance.

And there is nothing in those mask interactions that has to do with true unconditional love.

It’s all very conditional and the masks are going to try to attract you to someone else who has some kind of matching, fitting mask so that they can do a mask-to-mask dance with each other.

So they will attract you to people who, probably are not your best partners in life but, are very good for mask-to-mask interaction because they will push your buttons and you will push their buttons extremely easily.

The masks usually attract you by getting your sexual attention and getting you to think that this particular partner is just very sexually attractive and you just can’t live without them and therefore it leads into the swooning sort of thing.

So if you’re having a deep swooning action, take a close look. Make sure there is something better underneath, you got some real goods going on underneath the swooning.

If there is only swooning and sexual excitement, then that’s all there is, it’s just shallow and it doesn’t last and eventually the mask-to-mask interactions will drive you bonkers and push you away from each other.

Love and Song,

Helmut

Swooning Love

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